If you never leave

In your life, there are some chores around you every day, and these are always let you headaches.Until one day, you met her, she was attracted to you.You’ve been sitting in the classroom of the window silly fantasy: “Everyone will not leave, do not know the day off, we are not tired.”But you remember in the ‘she’, no one could make you never forget ‘her’.If you never left, so this is not my world dark.You were like a wounded deer, ran to my side, said: “We are good friends can do?Do not separate, not to become the most familiar stranger, okay?”I am pleased I nodded, probably because you do not hold anything against me, but the first person willing to be my friend, you know it?When we go to school, school, class, class is inseparable.I always listen to your side with your sweet song, singing that song: “We are all children start the beginning of the last final desire to become an angel ballad songs hidden in the shadow of fairy tales to the children’s children that fly to?”I’ll follow you sing a few words from time to time, you not only do not hold anything against me sing ugly, did not hold anything against me sing out of tune singing bother you.Will continue to encourage me, I believe I’ll sing better next time listen!Until February of that year, that was my saddest day.I will not play with you, come home, probably because it is a fight, you and I ferocious fights, and today has been in the Cold War.Until last night, you personally put forward: “We no longer are good friends now, not ever meet again.”To hear you, I live a self Xinrusihui tired day, I would say that sentence:” Why are you doing this?Had promised me, are you kidding me?”I have these questions even my close friends can not answer.A week later, you want to transfer, and never come back.My classmate, I shouted: “Wang Qi, to transfer, and now not on the car, you want to go to deliver what people.”The whole class the students are gone, only one person I did not go, I was sitting in a classroom with headphones listening to your favorite song.Later, my classmate, told me: “She do that, just do not want to see you are not allowed to see her crying transfer, just want you happy every day.She did not expect to make the most of your friendship have been imprinted in your heart, you can not forget.”I let the same table, then the heart becomes very confusing, my questions are solved all these words, and I apologize for the TV drama quarrel recall.My memory of the girl, there are numerous dark night, I cried out from the dorm room to find you.If you have to leave, I believe we are now well and certainly, certainly once again singing, dancing bar.I would like to go a little faster graduated from that city to find you, I will accompany you to spend every night in a noisy that city.Wang Qi, do not know if you remember that a school of willow, beginning that you made good friends, is the witness of our friendship, but also you personally raise last no longer friends place.Now, I will, as always, under the willow tree, watching your favorite book, waiting for you strange from that city back.The girl’s memory, your sweet smile, your sweet voice, I can not forget.If you never left, that nice ah!I’m lonely, I’m lonely, perhaps only you know, maybe only you will be with me the very quiet.If you never left, so this is not my world dark.3846176 /

Sweet Hope reason why so confident, because this is Lu Lu Jia Nailiang

Sweet Hope reason why so confident, because Gunai Liang Lu Lu is such a culture which is before a picture, a lot of people know.Sweet Xin Wang Fan TFBOYS source, before Lu Lu Xin sweet together to participate in activities, group photo with Wang Yuan, Xi Yi smelt one thousand, small sweet Xin has been Behind his shy, embarrassed look into the camera.In a look at these two pictures.Small sweet Xin very graceful idol of sitting around, laughing like flowers, so, so confident lovely daughter, Lu Lu Jia Nailiang is how to bring out of it?It turned out that they are so cultured.Hope to small sweet childhood fully aware of the love and acceptance and support from family.The famous psychologist Eriksson raised a total of four times to form personality from birth to school age and growth problems encountered, and build self-confidence are related, parents and children can join in four stages well to solve a given problem to grow, then the child will gain self-confidence and self-esteem.The first period is infancy, in the neonatal first came to gnaw, he resolved to build a sense of trust in this world, so that they fully positive optimism, when they have confidence in themselves and the world, will not easily be defeated despair and frustration.To help children build enough trust in this period, the mother’s care is essential, this is not a nanny can be replaced, the child will not worry about the outcome, will gradually formed his conviction, my mother has been by my side meet I need this faith will slowly open to expansion, we feel that this world is a safe and loving.Therefore, during this period to help children build a sense of trust, let him gain confidence and makes him optimistic and full of hope, lay the foundation for confidence.The second period is the early childhood, the child is 1-3 years old, this time the child has an obvious feature is the enhanced autonomy, the ability to have a child for independent thinking and the ability to act in the awareness that this period, most of the growth to solve the problem is the right to guide their children’s self-awareness.This time, parents should not blindly arranged so that the child will fully complete loss of control, the child will form a dependency, nor should totally do not help, after all, limited the ability of children, vulnerable to setbacks, will appreciate the free and brave, the correct approach is gentle support parents so that children can have a certain degree of autonomy to support the hungry, to help children slowly build independence and self-confidence, self-control when the child has adequate experience and confiscated, naturally will be conducive build self-confidence.The third period was the beginning of school age, the child is 3-5 years old, it is bursting with creativity and imagination of a child when, this time the main task is to help children build and create their own unique life initiative.If parents do not support this time the innovative behavior of those childish and unreasonable child, the child will feel frustrated, lose self-confidence will slowly break through and create, grow up there may not motivated, very obedient What parents say is what, in a narrow circle, not their ability to solve problems independently, parents should go this time to encourage children’s curiosity and exploratory behavior, and provide new opportunities to participate in such activities, patiently accompanied them and answer questions they raised, so that the child will continue to take the initiative to create and innovate, to achieve the goal to experience the joy of success, self-confidence will slowly be raised.The fourth period is of school age, that is, children 6-12 years old, at this time, the children’s intellectual development has been rapid, the school became a place to play their access to knowledge and intellectual skills, this time the child’s main task is to experience the joy of hard work to complete their education, when grades achieved, will feel a sense of joy diligence brought them confidence in the future.When the child is just entering school, are hard-working, but different academic make them have a different feeling for hard work, this time to keep their sense of hard work and self-confidence, we need to encourage parents and teachers and peers, and perhaps they may encounter setbacks on their studies, but others recognized that allows children think hard work is useful.Thus, during this period the parents should actively encourage children, especially in learning, so that they get a higher confidence in the future of independent life and work.And Lu Lu and Jia Nailiang is to develop self-confidence through the sweet Hope to get her so cute and self-confidence, so that so many people like her, I believe that your child can do, the key is to look at how do parents.This article headline numbers released by the author and do not represent the position of today’s headlines.

Road can look back, I can not go back

Road can look back, you can not walk back can look back, you can not go back, as I do not seek meaning, but for the worthy of my heart!Lost heaven and earth, not lost traces of heart, the wind and the rain stopped, can not stop the slightest idea of the meaning.Do not tie themselves of course there is no possibility to fly, no rough experience no colorful life, not real impressed would not always successful, no pains, no regrets brilliant life.The face should have to cherish, could not get without having to go demanding, life is like a never to return one-way ticket, no rehearsal, every game is broadcast live, a good grasp of every performance is the best cherish the life bit by bit past thin aftertaste, tears when sad, happy when drunk, because the pursuit and valuable, not the fault of the sunset years, the wind is not too woods, as long as the love of heaven paid a laugh sound is not a legend.We are missing something every day, miss, he was not aware, wise man said, best not to miss two things: the last one home, car and a love you man.Encounter really like to strive for the opportunity and his forever, because when he left everything will hate late.Met trustworthy people to get along well with him, because human life is not easy to meet friends.Elegant encountered a good to remember to thank him, because he is a turning point in your life.I encountered who have loved to remember grateful to him, because he lets you know how to love.Encounter people who hated to smile and say hello to him, because he makes you stronger.Once you encounter treacherous people to take over and talk to him, because if it is him you would not understand this world.I met once secretly like people to remember to wish him happy, because you love him hope he is not too happy right?I encountered a hurry to leave people remember to thank him through your life, because he is part of your wonderful memories seize every moment, cherish every owner.Do not let yourself live in the painful memories do not let yourself regret it if they work hard in life would be so much regret Is ah.Worthy of himself worthy of the world.Worthy of the heart.