Sweet Hope reason why so confident, because this is Lu Lu Jia Nailiang

Sweet Hope reason why so confident, because Gunai Liang Lu Lu is such a culture which is before a picture, a lot of people know.Sweet Xin Wang Fan TFBOYS source, before Lu Lu Xin sweet together to participate in activities, group photo with Wang Yuan, Xi Yi smelt one thousand, small sweet Xin has been Behind his shy, embarrassed look into the camera.In a look at these two pictures.Small sweet Xin very graceful idol of sitting around, laughing like flowers, so, so confident lovely daughter, Lu Lu Jia Nailiang is how to bring out of it?It turned out that they are so cultured.Hope to small sweet childhood fully aware of the love and acceptance and support from family.The famous psychologist Eriksson raised a total of four times to form personality from birth to school age and growth problems encountered, and build self-confidence are related, parents and children can join in four stages well to solve a given problem to grow, then the child will gain self-confidence and self-esteem.The first period is infancy, in the neonatal first came to gnaw, he resolved to build a sense of trust in this world, so that they fully positive optimism, when they have confidence in themselves and the world, will not easily be defeated despair and frustration.To help children build enough trust in this period, the mother’s care is essential, this is not a nanny can be replaced, the child will not worry about the outcome, will gradually formed his conviction, my mother has been by my side meet I need this faith will slowly open to expansion, we feel that this world is a safe and loving.Therefore, during this period to help children build a sense of trust, let him gain confidence and makes him optimistic and full of hope, lay the foundation for confidence.The second period is the early childhood, the child is 1-3 years old, this time the child has an obvious feature is the enhanced autonomy, the ability to have a child for independent thinking and the ability to act in the awareness that this period, most of the growth to solve the problem is the right to guide their children’s self-awareness.This time, parents should not blindly arranged so that the child will fully complete loss of control, the child will form a dependency, nor should totally do not help, after all, limited the ability of children, vulnerable to setbacks, will appreciate the free and brave, the correct approach is gentle support parents so that children can have a certain degree of autonomy to support the hungry, to help children slowly build independence and self-confidence, self-control when the child has adequate experience and confiscated, naturally will be conducive build self-confidence.The third period was the beginning of school age, the child is 3-5 years old, it is bursting with creativity and imagination of a child when, this time the main task is to help children build and create their own unique life initiative.If parents do not support this time the innovative behavior of those childish and unreasonable child, the child will feel frustrated, lose self-confidence will slowly break through and create, grow up there may not motivated, very obedient What parents say is what, in a narrow circle, not their ability to solve problems independently, parents should go this time to encourage children’s curiosity and exploratory behavior, and provide new opportunities to participate in such activities, patiently accompanied them and answer questions they raised, so that the child will continue to take the initiative to create and innovate, to achieve the goal to experience the joy of success, self-confidence will slowly be raised.The fourth period is of school age, that is, children 6-12 years old, at this time, the children’s intellectual development has been rapid, the school became a place to play their access to knowledge and intellectual skills, this time the child’s main task is to experience the joy of hard work to complete their education, when grades achieved, will feel a sense of joy diligence brought them confidence in the future.When the child is just entering school, are hard-working, but different academic make them have a different feeling for hard work, this time to keep their sense of hard work and self-confidence, we need to encourage parents and teachers and peers, and perhaps they may encounter setbacks on their studies, but others recognized that allows children think hard work is useful.Thus, during this period the parents should actively encourage children, especially in learning, so that they get a higher confidence in the future of independent life and work.And Lu Lu and Jia Nailiang is to develop self-confidence through the sweet Hope to get her so cute and self-confidence, so that so many people like her, I believe that your child can do, the key is to look at how do parents.This article headline numbers released by the author and do not represent the position of today’s headlines.